They must strictly refrain from divorce unless something
ariseth which compelleth them to separate because of their aversion for each
other, in that case with the knowledge of the Spiritual Assembly they may
decide to separate. They must then be patient and wait one complete year. If
during this year, harmony is not re-established between them, then their
divorce may be realized. It should not happen that upon the occurrence of a
slight friction or displeasure between husband and wife, the husband would
think of union with some other woman, or, God forbid, the wife also think of
another husband. This is contrary to the standard of heavenly value and true
chastity. The friends of God must so live and conduct themselves, and evince
such excellence of and conduct, as to make others astonished. The love between
husband and wife should not be purely physical, nay, rather it must be
spiritual and heavenly. These two souls should be considered as one soul. How
difficult it would be to divide a single soul! Nay, great would be the
difficulty!
In short, the foundation of the Kingdom of God is based upon
harmony and love, oneness, relationship and union, not upon differences,
especially between husband and wife. If one of these two becomes the cause of
divorce, that one will unquestionably fall into great difficulties, will become
the victim of formidable calamities and experience deep remorse.
- 'Abdu'l-Bahá (The Compilation of
Compilations, vol. I, Divorce)
