When such difference of opinion and belief occurs between
husband and wife it is very unfortunate for undoubtedly it detracts from that
spiritual bond which is the stronghold of the family bond, especially in times
of difficulty. The way, however, that it could be remedied is not by acting in
such wise as to alienate the other party. One of the objects of the Cause is actually
to bring about a closer bond in the homes. In all such cases, therefore, the
Master used to advise obedience to the wishes of the other party and prayer.
Pray that your husband may gradually see the light and at the same time so act
as to draw him nearer rather than prejudice him. Once that harmony is secured
then you will be able to serve unhampered.
- Shoghi Effendi (From a letter written on behalf of
Shoghi Effendi to an individual believer, dated 15 July 1928; The Compilation
of Compilations, vol. I, Preserving Baha’i Marriages)
